I WANT A HUSBAND
When I think about married couples, I don’t know whether I want to get married or not. If I’ll get married, how should I have a husband? I want a husband but which standards are important for me?
I would like to have a job. I don’t want to stay at home whole day. I believe that I can become economically independent. I can earn money which has my own. I don’t want to ask for money from my husband to my individual necessities. So I should have a job. And I want a husband who doesn’t oppose to my economically independence. He should let me to work. I should say about everything whatever I want and my husband shouldn’t interfere in my opinions. Of course he can say his own ideas but he should respect my ideas too. So I want a husband who respects me and my thoughts. And also my husband and I should have good relationship. For example; my husband should listen to me carefully when I talk about something and then he should make comment positive or negative about my ideas. Essentially this situation should be mutual. I shouldn’t argue with my husband about our opinion every time. I should enjoy becoming with my husband together. So I want a husband who makes me happy when I stay with him together. And I want a husband who is interested in my opinions.
I want a husband who can look after our child or children. Whenever I want to go somewhere with my friends or lonely, my husband should look after them. He shouldn’t look after them only when I haven’t been at home. He should be interested in them all the time. I want a husband who doesn’t forget our special days. He should remember my birthday, our marriage anniversary etc. and he should celebrate these special days each year. I want a husband who becomes romantic. Sometimes he should make romantic things for me. I don’t want a husband who drops off on the sofa when he watches TV. I want a husband who takes me out somewhere together at night or at the weekends.
What a pity! I think, it is impossible to find a husband who has these peculiarities. If you have a husband who has these characteristics, you are very lucky woman.